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How to Recognize a Scam Artist The relationship may not be what you think, especially if your sweetheart: wants to leave the dating site immediately and use personal email or IM claims love in a heartbeat claims to be from the U.S., but is traveling or working overseas plans to visit, but is prevented by a traumatic event or a business deal gone sour Scammers also like to say they re out of the country for business or military service.. She says she did what so many others do when online dating - she Googled him..