The STP also reports such authentication failures to the matchmaking service which.. These emails of people saying they've been through the same problems in their relationships, offering help or just rooting for us it's refreshing to hear those things." LIVE 00:00 01:57 Like Add to Watch Later Share In a 2012 New York Times op-ed , Tim Kreider references his friend's (slightly cynical) dating perspective in New York City: "Everyone s too busy, and everyone thinks they can do better." Too busy?. Home